We may not consciously beware that we are always setting goals, but whether we are setting goals consciously or unconsciously we are still setting goals. Anytime we decide or make a decision to do something we have set a goal to do it. My wife and I have while we were together set a goal to go out every Friday night for a couple of hours for our special time together. We called it our date night. It would be and is very beneficial for every married couple to have a date night even after they are a married couple. Dating is not just for those who are single and looking it is for those who have found their life mate (soul mate) as well. Dating after marriage keeps the relationship fresh and new, as well as it keeps those home fires burning.
Set an Achievement Date _ \"Goals are dreams with deadlines\" _ Diana Scharf Hunt _ Parkinson\'s Law says, \"Work expands so as to fill the time available for its completion.\" The more time we give ourselves to accomplish a task or goal, the more time it takes us to accomplish it. Therefore, we must learn to use Parkinson\'s Law to our advantage by setting shorter time frames in which to complete the goal or task. _ Identify All Possible Roadblocks and Setbacks _ \"When you confront a problem you begin to solve it.\" _ Rudy Giuliani _ Identifying roadblocks should not discourage you but help you avoid any unexpected setbacks that may occur; enabling you to create the most effective plans possible. By recognizing obstacles your mind should then begin to think of solutions to solve these possible situations. In Robert Kiyasaki\'s classic, Rich Dad Poor Dad, Kiyasaki\'s \"rich dad\" teaches him how the mind of the rich are different than that of the poor. When the poor see something that they desire but is beyond their current budget they say, \"I can\'t afford that.\" While the rich say, \"How can I afford that?\" Think as this rich dad and apply it not only in finances, but in all areas of your life. Create Your Key Indicators _ \"First you write down your goal; your second job is to break down your goal into a series of steps, beginning with steps which are absurdly easy.\" _ Fitzhugh Dodson _ An example of a key indicator is the number of cold calls that you will make. After deciding the key indicator you set a goal for that specific key indicator. This step is to help you identify the most important tasks that need to be done on a daily basis that bring you closer to accomplishing your goal. By doing what needs to be done first and seeing that task to the end, you will actually spend 80% less time on that task than if you tried doing the same task in smaller increments.